Raji

I wanted to write a little about Raji and his life, so you can pray for him. He is one of the middle sons of the main clan that lives in our area. When he was a kid, he told me, he chopped down a tree near a river, and the tree fell on the knee of a marunding spirit that lived there. The marunding spirit got angry and afflicted Raji’s knees in revenge. They both got infected, and one swelled up to the size of a watermelon. He was about 9 or 10 years old at the time, I think. Everyone remembers Raji’s swollen knees. The infection caused some permanent damage to his knees, so that he is not able to carry anything heavy very far. Most of the Palawanos head up to the high mountains several times a year to harvest the tree sap called begtik, but Raji is unable to go with them. When you look at his legs, they are considerably smaller and weaker than other men his age, but as long as he doesn’t carry lots of heavy loads, he seems to get around ok now.

About 5 years ago, a lady in one of the 2 clans living here (we’ll call her Rumita) lost her husband. It was a very unexpected death, apparently. He had been sick, but had just recovered and decided to work hard in his field all day. A hard day of work, with little water, combined with a liver that had frequently fought off malaria and a weekly bout of drunkenness is what did him in. All of a sudden he just keeled over. He was a fairly young man, too, late 30s or early 40s. They buried him right away (as is their custom), and the main witch doctor told his spirit not to come back to the village, that they were going to take care of his wife and kids. Nobody else could see his spirit except the witch doctor, and so afterwards they all asked, “What was he (his spirit) wearing when you talked to him?”

The witch doctor turned to one of the men who helped bury the dead man and asked, “What was he wearing when we buried him?”

The helper replied, “A striped t-shirt.”

So the witch doctor turned to the other Palawanos and said, “He was wearing a striped t-shirt.”

Apparently they all wailed at the truth of this, that the witch doctor really could see and had talked to the dead man’s spirit.

Over the next year, several men came and begged for Rumita to become their 2^nd wife. She was apparently a very hard worker. One of the men, Panin, was said to have gotten up and walked around his house at night several nights in a row wailing for the desire of taking Rumita as a 2^nd wife. He was unsuccessful, and later he claimed that a bad spirit had affected him and made him do that.  Other men were responding similarly, although perhaps not as dramatic as Panin.

However, there was 1 young man, Raji, who knew the right cards to play. He did not have a wife yet, and he knew that Rumita was a hard worker. He actually was good friends with her oldest son, as there were probably less than 10 years difference between them. He knew that with her already having 4 kids of her own that were still alive (she had 6 or 7 others that died), he would not be able to have lots of his own offspring. However, he had grown fond of the 3 youngest kids of Rumita, so he started secretly making arrangements to be the one that would be allowed to marry her. They were first cousins, but it is not forbidden to marry first cousins of this kind. (The kind of first cousins that are forbidden to marry are the kind where the 2 fathers are brothers – then they are said to have the same blood. Anyone who marries like this will be executed and cut in half, laid out without burial, to appease the anger of Empu.) In this case, however, Raji’s father was the older brother of Rumita’s mother, so they did not have the same blood and it was acceptable to marry.  

They still had to make arrangements in secret, though, as is custom with all the mountain Palawanos. Whenever someone wants to marry, they are only supposed to tell their parents and their local chieftains, who will approve or disapprove the marriages. If they tell anyone else, word will get around and someone will try and make a stink about it so as to stop the marriage (usually out of jealousy or some similar reason). Eventually, they do let people know, usually about a week or so before the wedding.  So the arrangements were made, and Raji married Rumita. They eventually had 1 son, and have decided to stop having children after that.

When we joined the team, Raji seemed like a diligent guy who could speak a little Tagalog, so I asked him to be my language helper. That is where we are now. I know a lot about his family and we are pretty good friends. He is my main source of information about the spirit world, as both he and his wife are full believers in Palawano animism.

Please pray for Raji, Rumita, her son Runiliyo and their other children that their hearts will be open to hearing and understanding the Gospel of Christ when we get to the point that we are able to teach them.